Strong Voices

Volunteers with the IHC Friendship Programme are matched with people with an intellectual disability who share their interests, in the hope that they can spend quality time together.

But seventeen years ago, when Josie and Robyn met for the first time, things were a little different. The friendship began when they met at a local day service. “I’d seen Robyn there and thought we’d get along,” recalls Josie. And she was right.

From the very beginning, the two clicked and have gone on to share all sorts of experiences over the years; among them – walks, movies, drives, cooking and sewing.

“Robyn’s always got a lot of satisfaction from doing normal things,” Josie says. “Like paying for her drink at a café or buying wine at the supermarket.”

Now, as Robyn has grown older and lives with dementia, things have naturally changed. But the heart of their friendship remains the same.

“Even though she can’t do quite as much now, making her happy is really rewarding for me”, says Josie.

“Coffee shops are always a hit – coffee and a muffin, and she’s good to go. And sometimes we visit a salon for Robyn to get her nails done. She’s always loved to look good.”

Josie living nearby has made a real difference too. With Robyn’s close family overseas, having someone who can easily drop in and enjoy outings with her has been invaluable.

Over the years, Josie has learned that understanding your friend - and being realistic about your own expectations - is key. “Patience really helps,” she says.

At the end of the day, it’s a simple but lovely connection. As Josie puts it, “I really like making Robyn happy.”

Image: L-R Old friends Josie and Robyn

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